Sing Chanukah songs and sit by the menorah watching the flames and tell the story of Chanukah. Have a bigger meal than usual with dairy to remember Yehudis and customary fried foods. You can also play dreidel and other games and spend time with the family. The main thing is women are not allowed to do work for at least the 30 min the candles are lit after nightfall and men have to work to make that happen.